How to meet people in a new city

Arriving in a new city is usually the beginning of an exciting new chapter. But it can also be lonely. Many newcomers find it difficult to rebuild a social circle after relocating, not knowing where to begin. Luckily, these practical tips can help recent arrivals make friends and build connections wherever they call home.

Your new neighborhood, or one nearby, is likely to host festivals, community events and social groups. These can be natural ways to meet and get to know locals. Search online for local events or social groups in or near your area. Check out your neighborhood cafes, libraries and community centers for bulletin boards and flyers about hyperlocal events.

Be proactive about striking up friendly conversations with everyday people you encounter. For instance, ask the barista at the cafe for recommendations on things to do. Chat up the people around you at the gym or even the grocery store. Ask them about things to do in the area and what they like to do.

Faith-based or cultural communities can be hubs for getting people connected with like-minded individuals in their communities. See what social and connection events your local faith organizations may have to offer. Sometimes these events aren't limited to members of any particular faith and are open to anyone in the community. Some churches, for example may double as community centers or host non-religious neighborhood events.

If that’s not your thing, cultural-based groups that center around values and connected lifestyles might also be available in your area. Look for associations, programs and organizations centered around a cause, value or cultural identity.

Attend local town halls, community forums and meetings. This can be a simple way to not only meet people in your community, but to understand the local issues and politics, and to get involved.

Or, consider volunteering. There are many nonprofits, charities, and other organizations that target local communities. Think about the needs your area has and how you can volunteer to help. This is a rewarding way to meet people who care about the things you do.

Depending on the city, there may be events happening outside your neighborhood. Consider taking a trip across town to join a social club, sport, or to take a class.   

Don’t try to simply meet people and check a box. Try to connect with others and get to know them. This could mean committing to a smaller group that meets regularly, instead of searching for one-time opportunities to have short-lived small talk. Find an opportunity that allows you to keep coming back and become a regular so that you can slowly deepen your connections.

The internet can be a great place to get a grasp of everything your new city has to offer. Many neighborhoods have online communities on social media forums like Facebook, Reddit and Nextdoor.

For a stress-free digital way to find a tribe of like-minded people in your area, join Klatchmaker. After filling out a profile and completing a few quizzes, you can ask Klatchmaker to find a small group of people in your area who share your interests and values. The best part about it is this personalized klatch-making service is free!